Why it's pointless to ask me to do “what I really like”
While writing my website, something struck me, and I'd like to share it with you. Sometimes certain people who contact me ask me, and I quote, “what I really like,” to do what gives me pleasure.
My BDSM journey
This sounds like a classic sentence in the BDSM world where people frequently ask each other: “so how did you get into BDSM?” and of course everyone is keen on hearing some crunchy if not deep kinky anecdotes. And I am not one to refuse the exercise.
More about kink
Kink can but does not necessarily mean hardcore pain like most people imagine. Kink is about finding other ways of relating with our bodies, minds, and others.